MY EXPERIENCE IN A NARCISSISTIC RELATIONSHIP

Like you, I am a survivor of a traumatic relationship involving a female Cluster B personality disordered partner. From the brief depiction below, you may recognize experiences that you are going through, and I can help coach you back to peace.

To my face she was loving, charming, funny, caring, ever-present, and would often talk about "our forever." However, after realizing countless red flags, I uncovered that she used lies, manipulation, and gaslighting to deceive, betray, and cheat each day of our relationship. At the very end she shared with me that she was a Narcissist and claimed to have multiple personalities. I learned that her entire life has been a lie!

As our romance concluded, her love-bombing was replaced with evil and manipulative gaslighting, my head and heart became flooded with a sense of tremendous pain and confusion. She immediately moved on to one of her countless intimate victims she was with during our relationship. Though she had gained a new supply, I remained on her mind as a disruptive wave in her delusion as I was one of the very few people who knew her despicable truth. For me, there was no place to find answers or resolve.

Like all Narcissists, she continues to lie about me, run smear campaigns, and has created a completely delusional narrative of our relationship. This will all happen to you if it has not happened yet, and I can help you to understand and work through this madness. 

Healing was a significant journey, and the road provided a new purpose, as I sought understanding, education, and a feeling of indifference towards my abusive partner. I am now free, happy, and indifferent to her existence and behavior.

I founded UNCLUSTERED COACHING LLC, to guide men through a transformative personal growth journey with the goal of helping them recover from the trauma of an abusive narcissistic relationship. 

Together, we will identify your strengths and work on overcoming your obstacles, confusion, and pain so you may continue healing and reach your fullest potential.