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Like you, I am a survivor. I was unknowingly involved in a traumatic relationship involving a female Cluster B personality disordered partner. From the brief depiction below, you may recognize experiences that you have had or are going through, and I can help coach you back to peace.
In creating her facade to gain access to me, she was loving, charming, funny, caring, and always present, frequently talking about "our forever." However, after noticing countless red flags, I realized that she used lies, manipulation, and gaslighting to deceive, betray, and cheat almost every day of our relationship. At the very end, she revealed to me that she was a narcissist* and claimed to have multiple personalities.* I discovered that her entire life had been a lie!
As our romance concluded, her love-bombing was replaced with evil and manipulative gaslighting. My head and heart became flooded with a sense of tremendous pain and confusion. She immediately moved on to one of her countless other intimate victims and though she had secured her new, but temporary supply, I remained on her mind as a disruptive wave in her delusion. I was one of the very few people who knew her despicable truth. For me, there was no place to find answers or resolve.
Like all Narcissists, she continues to lie about me, run smear campaigns, and has created a completely delusional narrative of our relationship. This will all happen to you if it has not happened yet, and I can help you to understand and work through this madness.
Healing has been a significant journey for me, leading to a newfound purpose as I sought understanding, education, and resolution regarding my abusive partner. As a result, I am now free, happy, and indifferent to her existence and behavior.
I founded UNCLUSTERED COACHING LLC, to guide victims through a transformative personal growth journey with the goal of helping them recover from the trauma of an abusive narcissistic, or other Cluster B disordered relationship.
Together, and in a positive, supportive, motivational environment, we will identify your strengths and work on overcoming your obstacles, confusion, and pain so you may continue healing and reach your fullest potential.
*Her self-disclosure. Actual medical diagnosis unknown.

Credentials
A psychiatrist once told me, "Your traumatic experience trumps my doctorate every time!"
*Her self-disclosure. Actual medical diagnosis unknown.
Ramani Durvasula, PhD, LCP
Ingrid Clayton, PhD
David Kessler, MA, RN, FACHE
Wendy T. Behary, MSW, LCSW
Catherine Barrett, PsyD, MFT
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